Polyamory in Romance Novels

I was listening to Polyamory Weekly last week and the interviewee was Racheline Maltese, co-author of The Art of Three, a new romance novel. The story sounds intriguing, but more intriguing is that the authors themselves are polyamorous.

Polyamory is the practice of having multiple long-term loving relationships with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. Having dated polyamorously a couple of times, and having studied it seriously for the better part of a year, I can say that it is not as scandalous or exciting as it sounds. It attracts all kinds of different people, some of whom are highly evolved and have the utmost of beautiful intentions, some of whom are confused or predatory, and some of whom have no business even trying it. But that’s a subject another blog.

In terms of writing a romance novel, what I love about this story (I haven’t read it yet) is that it dispenses with the tired cliché of whom will she pick – the hot young stud who offers her passion and excitement, or the other hot stud who offers her depth and commitment? Or some other such sad and soggy cliché. Instead, the heroine pursues a relationship with both parties and deals with whatever joy and drama ensues from such a choice. What a new and seductive idea!

Writing – and all art – is a tight balance between being innovative and real, but conforming to the conventions readers expect. It is a hard balance to get right. If it’s too cutting edge, readers may be offended and dismiss it out of hand. If it’s too conventional, readers will be bored and pass it over. What I like about Erin McRae and Racheline Maltese, the co-authors of The Art of Three, is that they decided to just write what they wanted to write. The best art, in my opinion, comes from the depths of the artist; it does not come from studying the market. It’s a risk. But it seems to have paid off for these authors. The book has received positive reviews.

So, for all of you who love, compose, or consume art, may you open the boundaries of your spirit and stretch yourselves to consider new and trailblazing ideas.

Have a blessed and beautiful week,

Raven

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